Saturday, July 12, 2014
You say that you are in love, for that I say, "I am happy that you have found it." Love comes in different ways and in many different times in your life. Embrace it, cherish it, and by all means love you more than you love the other. If you love the person, don't expect to change them when you don't like something about them. When you fell in love with them, they were what they were, so don't think over time something you don't like that you have to try to change them or they changing you. You might think about adjusting to them, but not changing them. And if that person loves you as well, then they would do the same for you. It is there soul and spirit you fell in love with. If it was the look of them or the built of them, then you fell in love with the flesh and my dear...that does change. What is left though is the same soul and spirit. So, do not look at the person; instead listen and hear the person and then decide that you are in love. Think of it as something you enjoyed as a child, but when you walked into adulthood you didn't like it anymore. You threw it away or got rid of it in some way or fashion. Love is not like that my dear. Love is not complex. Love is easy. It is the staying in love that is challenging. Be in love. Embrace it. Flourish with it, but by all means be in love with you as you are in someone else. For you can not love someone if you are not in love with yourself.