To their children; whether from the mother or the father, yet they don't want to pay the child support. How can you say you love a child; when you don't even pay for the welfare of the child? I don't understand this type of love. If you love someone; isn't regardless of the situation; you do all that you can do even if you have to do something in your soul you know is wrong to make sure your child--the blood of your blood, the one from your seed, and the child you say t that; "I love you"---don't you do whatever means possible to rest assure that the welfare of the child is in your interest.
Guess what? To those that have the "DEAD BEATS"; that flee, that you loose contact with, that you find that hasn't pay the child support; you don;t have to take it. Call the Child Support Services, the IRS, and or the District Attorney, and let hit be known that the person is not doing there part. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO TAKE IT. DONT LET THEM GET AWAY WITH IT. There are even lawyers that work-- http://www.lawyers.com/Child-Support/browse-by-location.html. Now get busy and do what you have to do for your child.
You; the responsible parent is taking care of the child--I pray GOD you are; then remember it isn't personal...it is for the benefit for the CHILD and to give you some peace of mind. Aren't the children worth it?